I will treat you kind, so please be that. I'm real, so you're going to find that I'll cut to the chase and ask to meet for dinner and drinks right out the gate. It's simply the best way to determine a connection. I'm happy with one liner questions, but if the answer is already a product of my profile, I'm going to ask you to read my profile. :) I know I'm not for everyone so I have made an effort to describe what I'm looking for. I'm looking for a long term emotionally engaged ENM relationship, but if your not interested in a physical connection, I am also happy to be a vanilla friend with like minded people. You are going to find me completely open, honest and absent of drama. I am currently not in a poly relationship, but I'm that guy who is available when you want him around and out of your hair when you don't. You can wave me in anytime as I'm always happy to make myself available for a philosophical conversation, drink, dinner, or therapeutic massage. I am Intellectually and emotionally mature with an appetite to discover off path trails (physically and metaphorically) . I'm fit and value a spirital connection. You're going to find that I'm equally interested in navigating your mind. I do feel obligated to tell you that I am an extrovert. I love physical activities (running, cycling, hiking, dancing, tennis, camping, etc) and would like to connect within that context as I feel it makes for a great friendship baseline. For me it's a great way to lead into a gratifying and mutually satisfying physical experience. If you are kind, honest, and interested in a fun loving experience then I'm worth a base touch. By way of character, you're going to find me someone who has been exposed to many cultures and a product of some. Fun fact - I'm the first American to serve as an officer in the Australian army. I grew up on a farm in New Mexico, where one of my duties was milking cows (so very good massage hands :). I've enjoyed life all over the world and will love learning about your adventures.

My Ideal Person My ideal person is someone who has a sense of poly frameworks (not just mine) and values cross mentoring on the subject. I want you to just be engaging, physically active, and honest. I want you to enjoy being touched, massaged and kissed for long periods of time.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Gonna hold back. This needs to be an intimate conversation
for me. :)

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Not really

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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