Slowly gaining experience and confidence. We're very picky about who we'll meet and prefer to chat first before meeting for a drink. Also, we're not paid members, so can't respond to all the messages in our flooded inboxes. Please stop! haha. We try to connect via messenger when we're online. Thanks :)

My Ideal Person We found our first success in user meharsquai and will use him as an example as our ideal person (in lieu of a nice testimonial). He worked with our schedule and met us out for a drink first at a time and location of our choosing, followed by normal conversation of getting to know someone. We are still taking small steps, so had very clear boundaries and these were clearly communicated and agreed upon up front (before meeting even). Our boundaries weren't pushed and we felt comfortable and respected the entire encounter.

Any other hopeful guy can take that advice as to what we're looking for! Be normal, actually get to know us a bit, understand and acknowledge our boundaries and expectations, and then follow through on respecting them.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The middle of a park, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, A swimming pool or hot tub, An elevator, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Not yet, but I definitely want to try it.

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